Of course you CAN do all of the below after you have had kids, but it is harder, especially while they are small.
- Have long luxuriant baths, maybe together.
- Go out - Theatre, fine dining etc.
- Be unpredictable - drinks after work, spur of the moment fun.
- Cinema.
- Indulgent all-day shopping.
- Travel.
- Be lazy, have lie-ins and naps.
- Volunteer.
- Work late.
- Stay up late and get very drunk.